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Back to School: Getting the Family Back into a Routine After a Lazy Summer

Back to School: Getting the Family Back into a Routine After a Lazy Summer

Easy Tips & Tricks for Making the Transition from Summer Days to School Days a Little Easier

There’s something wonderful about summer. Bedtimes get later. Breakfast might happen at 10 o’clock instead of 7. There are afternoons spent at the pool, evenings around the fire pit, and days when nobody knows what time it is—and nobody really cares!

But then, almost overnight, the school supplies are bought, backpacks are packed, new shoes are sitting by the door, and the alarm clock is ringing again.

Now it’s time to get back into the school year routine.

If your family has enjoyed a lazy, laid-back summer, don’t worry. You don’t have to go from “summer mode” to a perfectly organized school schedule overnight. A little preparation, a little patience, and a few old-fashioned routines can make those first weeks of school much smoother.

Start Adjusting Bedtimes Before the First Day

One of the hardest parts of going back to school is getting everyone out of bed in the morning!

During summer, children often stay up later and sleep later. A few days—or even a couple of weeks—before school starts, begin moving bedtime and wake-up time earlier by 15–30 minutes every few days.

It’s much easier than suddenly announcing, “School starts tomorrow. Everybody go to bed at 8:30!”

And parents may need the adjustment, too!

Bring Back the Morning Routine

Before school starts, practice the morning routine.

Set the alarm. Get dressed. Eat breakfast. Brush those teeth. Find the shoes. Grab the backpack. And most importantly, figure out where everyone needs to be and when they need to be there.

You might even have a practice morning a few days before school begins.

It may sound silly, but discovering that someone's favorite shoe is missing on a practice day is much better than discovering it at 7:42 on the first morning of school!

Plan a Few Easy Breakfasts

Mornings are busy enough without trying to reinvent breakfast every day.

Keep a few simple favorites on hand:

  • Toast or warm buttermilk biscuits with homemade jam or jelly

  • Peanut butter and banana toast

  • Yogurt and fresh fruit or jam swirled in

  • Oatmeal with berries

  • Eggs and toast

  • Homemade muffins

  • Easy Chocolate Chip Pancakes
  • Cereal and fruit

  • Peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for those especially rushed mornings

A jar of any of Harvest Array's good old-fashioned homemade jams can turn an ordinary piece of toast into something special.

And don't forget to make breakfast a family affair when you can. Even if you only have 15 minutes together around the table, those few minutes can become some of the best moments of the day.

Get Lunches Organized

School lunches have a way of sneaking up on you!

Instead of scrambling every morning, take a few minutes on Sunday to think about the week ahead.

Make a simple list of lunch ideas and keep commonly used items together in the pantry. Let the kids help choose their lunches, too.

And remember, lunch doesn't have to be fancy. 

A peanut butter and jelly sandwich, an apple, a little snack, and a carton of milk may not look like much—but for generations of children, that's what lunchtime looked like. Besides, who has time for flower shaped cucumber slices, homemade sushi rolls, and fresh made granola in a perfectly organazed bento box. We survived, your kids will too!

Sometimes the simplest things are the ones we remember.

Create a “Drop Zone” by the Door

Give everything a place.

A basket, bench, shelf, or small table near the door can become the family “school zone.”

That's where backpacks, lunch boxes, shoes, jackets, and school papers go.

The goal is simple: If it belongs at school tomorrow, put it by the door tonight.

This one little habit can save a surprising amount of morning frustration.

Bring Back Homework Time

During summer, homework probably wasn't part of the daily schedule.

Start easing back into a quiet afternoon or evening homework period before school gets too busy.

It doesn't have to mean sitting at the kitchen table for an hour. Younger children might read for 15 minutes. Older children can organize notebooks, review summer reading, or prepare for the week ahead.

The important thing is to establish the idea that there is a regular time for schoolwork.

Put the Family Calendar Where Everyone Can See It

Sports practices. Music lessons. School events. Doctor appointments. Church activities. Birthday parties. Homework. Work schedules.

It doesn't take long before the family calendar starts looking like a complicated puzzle!

Put a large calendar somewhere everyone can see it and write down the important events.

Better yet, have a short family “calendar check” once a week.

What's happening this week? Who needs to be where? Who needs a ride? What needs to be packed?

Five minutes of planning can save a lot of running around later.

Don't Forget to Make Dinner Easy

The first few weeks of school aren't the time to put pressure on yourself to prepare elaborate meals every night.

Keep some simple dinner favorites on hand.

Soup and sandwiches. Tacos. Pasta. Meatloaf. Casseroles. Grilled chicken. Breakfast for dinner.

And if everyone is tired, there's nothing wrong with keeping it simple.

The goal isn't to create a picture-perfect dinner.

The goal is to sit down together when you can.

Give Everyone a Little Responsibility

Back-to-school routines shouldn't fall entirely on Mom and Dad.

Even young children can help.

They can:

  • Pack their backpack

  • Put their shoes by the door

  • Help make lunch

  • Put dirty clothes in the hamper

  • Set the table

  • Choose tomorrow's outfit

  • Help prepare breakfast

Older children can and should take on even more responsibility.

These little jobs don't just make life easier for parents. They teach children the habits they'll eventually need when they're living on their own.

Leave Some Room for “Nothing”

This may be the most important tip of all: Don't over-schedule your family!

There will always be another activity to join, another sport to play, another lesson to take, another event to attend.

But children need downtime, too.

They need afternoons when they can ride their bikes, play outside, read a book, build something, watch a favorite television show, or simply lie on the grass and look at the clouds.

And parents need that breathing room, too.

A full calendar doesn't necessarily mean a full life.

Give Everyone Time to Adjust

The first week—or even the first month—may not go perfectly.

  • Someone will forget their lunch.
  • Someone will miss the bus.
  • Someone will leave a homework folder on the kitchen counter.
  • Someone will be tired and cranky.

That's okay.

Getting back into a routine takes time. Give your family—and yourself—a little grace.

Before long, those early mornings and school-night routines will feel normal again.

And Don't Forget to Enjoy It!

When you're in the middle of the back-to-school chaos, it can be tempting to wish for the days when the children were more independent.

But here's something every parent eventually discovers: Those days come sooner than you think.

So slow down. Don't over-schedule every minute.

Sit at the kitchen table for breakfast. Make the peanut butter and jelly sandwich. Listen to the stories about their school day. Drive them to practice. Watch the game. Read one more bedtime story. Take the picture—even when they roll their eyes.

Because one day, that little backpack will be replaced by a college dorm room or apartment.

The child who once needed help tying their shoes will be packing their own bags.

And you'll wonder how the years went by so quickly.

Enjoy the little moments.

The messy kitchen. The forgotten homework. The sleepy mornings. The laughter around the dinner table. The notes in the lunchbox. The after-school stories.

Because before you know it, they'll be off to college or trade school—and you'll wish you could have just one more ordinary Tuesday morning together.

So as the school year begins, get organized, establish a routine, and make life a little easier wherever you can.

But leave room for the moments that aren't on the calendar.

Those are often the moments you'll remember most.

From all of us at Harvest Array, here's wishing your family a happy, healthy, and wonderful new school year!

Aug 31st 2026 Dodie Schaub

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